Day 2 of bootcamp was today. One student picked up a girl who I could only describe as â€œfucking smoking hotâ€ on the underground. Just when he was feeling shitty as well, I was like â€œThereâ€™s oneâ€ and he did awesomeâ€¦. And he was doing carwheels afterwords. Then I said â€œLook, understand youâ€™ll probably never see her againâ€ â€¦ followed by â€œunderstand it makes no difference, because youâ€™ll meet another girl just as hot as her in an hour, and then tomorrow, and the day after thatâ€¦.â€
And he was like â€œahhhhhhhhâ€
He got it, he got the point. That was awesome.Â Thatâ€™s what this all boils down to. If you just approach one girl per day for the rest for your life, youâ€™ll never be alone. Itâ€™s impossibleâ€¦ unless you have some heavy issues. But for the majority of guys â€“ this will remain a truth.
Ah, I had this thought earlier todayâ€¦ that ever pickupâ€™s success has two halves. One half is under your control, and the other half has nothing to do with you â€“ and has all the other factors in it. E.G
having a good energy
believing in what you said
blah blah blah
everything thatâ€™s in your power.
The other half is everything thatâ€™s not in your power. the type of person she is, her mood, what happened to her that week, the way her ex boyfriends treated her. Everything that has nothing to do with you. That shit you canâ€™t control.
So, after every interaction one should analyze which half was responsible for the interaction going the way it did. So if it went nowhere â€“ was it you? Were you staring at her tits?? Did you make her feel ackward or say something stupid? Or, was she just not having any of it? Itâ€™s important to knowâ€¦ because if it was you â€“ you need to work on it. And if it wasnâ€™t you â€“ you shouldnâ€™t blame yourself for it going tits up. It had nothing to do with you â€“ move on.
By the same token, if it went awesome itâ€™s just as important to have a look at why that is. What did you do that was right? Think about itâ€¦ better yet, write it down! (If it was shit, write it down too!)
There you go. A simple pie chart that will lead you to ultimate success. Yaaay! I rock.
Yea yeah. This is probably an over simplified version of a learning/growth analysation system that’s already out there. But whatever… Â makes sense to me.