Just thought I’d update you on something. When I took your bootcamp I had zero lays and zero belief a woman could find me attractive. I was very hung up on my height because I’m short at 5’4”. Having got laid more than I imagined was possible since then, I have a much healthier set of beliefs about myself. However my height was still an issue for me, especially because I love tall women. I mean 6ft+. I still felt like it was impossible to get them, until last night :)
A couple of months ago I had a 5’10” girl, which I thought was good going. 6” taller than me! And the funny thing was, she didn’t give a fuck about my height. It never came up. I love how you can be honest and direct with girls and the result is almost always positive. Last week I met a gorgeous 6’2” girl, and when I asked her out she said I was too short for her. I replied calmly saying, I love sexy tall women and she should give me her number anyway. She did. Last night I took her out for drinks and then took her home! It was so easy. She didn’t really care that I was short. After sex she told me I was indeed the shortest guy she’d been with, but she loved how confident I was, and when I replied calmly and honestly (rather than some reactionary aggressive line) she thought she’d give me a chance. She said that in the past she found short guys to be lacking confidence and sometimes trying to compensate and that’s what initially put her off rather than the actual height, which she didn’t care about, at all!
So also said that as soon as I met her on the first date, walked in and smiled at her, she knew she’d like to go home with me. This is reality shattering, Sasha! A 6’2” girl sees a 5’4” guy and thinks he’s sexy. WTF! I’ve spent so much of my life telling myself I’m too short for the girls I really want, and you know what, that attitude and that attitude alone was what was stopping me. Some girls (and she was gorgeous, German, 6’2”, leggy, and more importantly she knew she was sexy and didn’t lack confidence) don’t care what height you are. I can no longer tell myself it’s impossible to get tall girls.
These change all started with your bootcamp Sasha! Thanks a million!