This article is going to show how you can approach a girl without fear of rejection or failure. Soon, you’ll have the tools you need to overcome approach anxiety. You’ll finally be ready to start attracting beautiful women into your life each and every day.
Unfortunately, when most guys get started attracting women, they discover that they first need to cure approach anxiety. They see a beautiful woman and instantly feel a crippling fear that feels nearly impossible to overcome.
For some, this fear becomes too much and their approach anxiety beats them for good. Others will challenge themselves and approach women after women for weeks or months on end, hoping that it will somehow eliminate approach anxiety forever.
But as many of those guys will tell you, even after approaching 100s of girls THE APPROACH ANXIETY IS STILL THERE!
So if simply approaching tons of women isn’t enough to cure approach anxiety, what is?
After overcoming my own fear of approaching women, and helping hundreds of men across the globe do the same, I’ve been fortunate to discover what really works to overcome approach anxiety forever.
One of the biggest reasons most guys continue to get approach anxiety after making numerous approaches is that they only approach women at specific times.
Most guys who want to get good with women will go out at specified times and approach women. During those times they’ll try to pick up girls with varying degrees of success, but the rest of the time they’ll go about life as if women didn’t even exist!
As soon as their life gets busy, they feel like they don’t have time to approach and they take a break. Once they are ready to start approaching again, they’re devastated to learn that their approach anxiety is back!
There is a HUGE problem with that mindset!
When you only approach at specified times than you’re not actually making it part of who you are. You’re going out and approaching, which is great, but you’re actually limiting yourself to being the guy who only talks to people on Saturdays and Wednesdays from 5 till 8!
What happens when the girl of your dreams passes you by on a Monday?
If you’re like most guys you’ll be feeling “rusty” or “not in the mood” and simply let her pass you by. After all, you only approach on the weekends – if at all.
The guys that get REALLY GOOD with girls don’t just make approaching what they do; they make it who they are.
These are the guys who live with PASSION, they are driven by their desires and live life on their own terms. They don’t go out solely to “pick up” women, they see a beautiful girl and they talk to her, regardless of what time of day it is or where they are.
Men that overcome their approach anxiety might still feel some fear for the first approach or two, but they accept it as something that is natural and push through it anyways.
If you want to truly overcome approach anxiety you must deal with the excuses that stop you from meeting women anywhere. Excuses like:
Ask yourself, are these ever really valid excuses or are you just giving in to fear?
If you really want to get comfortable in approaching a girl without fear of rejection, and how to cure approach anxiety forever, IGNORE YOUR EXCUSES. If you see a hot girl, go up and talk to her. Surely you have at least a few minutes to find out more about her.
Maybe she is bitchy, maybe you don’t have much time, but if you really want beautiful women in your life, taking those few minutes to talk to girls throughout your day will make a massive difference in your success. And this way, you’ll overcome approach anxiety for good and never feel rusty when your ideal girl walks past.
How to create more opportunities to approach throughout the day:
Hopefully by now you realize how important it is to approach beautiful women, wherever they may be. But how do you create the opportunities while going about your busy day?
Making approaching part of who you are requires that you constantly look for beautiful women while going about your day. Here are a few examples of great places to meet girls:
By just making this one habit a part of your life you can cure approach anxiety FOREVER and ultimately end up with a load of new great women in your life.
Three simple rules to maximize your results:
Tell her: Another great game to play is one called “tell her.” Whenever you’re with a friend, if one of you says anything about any woman – and you’re friend says “ “tell her” you HAVE to go and tell the woman exactly what you just said. You can even explain to women the game that you’re playing – they don’t mind! Mix this in with punching your friend every time you spot a cute girl and this will equal meeting a LOT of new people!
These rules and habits may sound a bit daunting at first, but I GUARANTEE YOU that by implementing them into your life, you’ll never have to ask how to approach a girl without fear of rejection again. You’ll be having so much fun and meeting so many women that overcoming approach anxiety will not even cross your radar.
More importantly, you’ll finally be the type of guy that women love. A spontaneous, fun, social guy that goes after what he wants and isn’t stuck in a boring routine.
So go out there and live your life.
Don’t set a time to meet women.
Make meeting women a part of who you are…. You won’t regret it!
Booooom shaka laka!! ;)
Sasha is Europe’s top direct daygame instructor … and runs the most intense and personalized daygame bootcamps in the world. He’s usually in London but travels back and forth between North America and Europe regularly. For information on his programs, check out the training page