Hanger on girls
So, something Iâ€™ve noticed in the last couple of weeks. Iâ€™ve met a couple of girls who obviously want to sleep with me, but they wonâ€™t fuck me. But theyâ€™ll keep coming up to me whenever they see me and tryin to talk to me. Iâ€™ll use this one girl as an example. Letâ€™s call her bigboob midget.
I met bigboob midget onceâ€¦. As I messing around being goofy and she was in my presence. WE didnâ€™t talk much.
Then, a few days later she comes up to me and tells me she saw me that time, being goofy, and that weâ€™d before. Ok. We talk for a while, and sheâ€™s giving me the â€œI want to fuckâ€ puppy eyes. I suggest we get giggy with it, but she just ignores it. I say goodbye
Next day I run into her in this bar. Sheâ€™s all over me, wants to talk. She wonâ€™t leave me alone. I suggest we go back to mine. She says she canâ€™t, she there with someone. I ask her if itâ€™s a guy sheâ€™s hooking up with and she says no. I ask if she has a BF and she says no. I ask why we canâ€™t hook up and she says she has stuff to do. I go home
Next day she shows up at my comedy gig. I try it again. She says no, while giving me the fuck me eyes. I decide sheâ€™s a time waster
2 days later, she stops me again. Same deal, asking me how I am and staring at me with the puppy eyes.Â I ask if she wants to hook up, she says she has a waiting list of guys. Iâ€™m like â€œI donâ€™t care! Do u want to hook up or not?â€ nopeâ€¦.
Next day, sheâ€™s clinging on to me again. What the FUCK???
This other girl I met ages ago is doing the same shit. WE met up. We get on great. She has a BF â€“ TELLS me she doesnâ€™t like him that much. But she doesnâ€™t want to cheat. Ok. I leave her alone. Once she asks to do lunch, we do. Itâ€™s fineâ€¦. She suggest once day we may hook up and we should â€œkeep in touchâ€
Now sheâ€™s texting me/chatting me on FB. She told me they keep breaking up and then just fucking cuz theyâ€™re horny. Great.Â I suggested a day to meet, she says canâ€™t do that day, Iâ€™ll let you know. Then nothing for 2 weeks, then she FBâ€™s me saying â€œyou never call meâ€
What the fuck is this? Seems like she wants to fuck, but she doesnâ€™t want to break from the safety of ex boyfriend sex or whateverâ€¦. Iâ€™m trying to decide between calling her and asking her out once last time â€“ or â€“ sending a brutally honest message that says â€œeither you want to hook up, or stop wasting my timeâ€
Will do one of those and report back.
But overall â€“ what is going on with these girls? IF you donâ€™t want to hook up, fuck off.
Why are you wasting my time? You know I want to fuck. Iâ€™ve made it clear, I want to fuck. I donâ€™t want to hang around and chat to you when I run into you (or just get a text message from you once in a while, about making plans which never materialize) â€¦
Is there something wrong with me? I donâ€™t want to have dumb ass smalltalk with hot girls anymore. I donâ€™t care. If I find them truly fascinating, sure.Â Love to hang out. Still Iâ€™m going to sleep with them though. If they arenâ€™t interested in sex â€“ and theyâ€™re not fascinating â€“ Iâ€™m not going to hang around for them to change their mind.
Has anyone else had these type of â€œhanger onâ€ girls before? Where all their body lanuguage is saying â€œfuck me nowâ€ but their telling you â€œnah, I donâ€™t want to fuckâ€ â€¦ I guess this Is where â€œgameâ€ comes in and you â€œgetâ€ them in bed. I donâ€™t do any of that shit though. I donâ€™t want to. Iâ€™d rather just say â€œyou know what, call me when you want to get together â€“ stop wasting my timeâ€
Iâ€™m being massively influenced by David X and Allan Rodger Currie as of late. I just canâ€™t be asked with the small talk. It eats a piece of my soul. If I see a hot girl, I want to ask her out on a date straight away and either get rejected, or have her start chatting to me (which means itâ€™s a maybe) and weâ€™re away.Â I canâ€™t take the yippity yap no more.
Iâ€™ve started to get better at seeing which girls are just ready for sex right away. Thereâ€™s quite a few of them out there. Probably as high as 1 in 10 girls. They are just â€“ ready for sex. You still have to have good game to pull it off, but it can be done.
Logistics are everything. If you game near your flat â€“ you should be able to bring girls back thereâ€¦. Bounce for a coffee / question game â€“ get sexual / back to yours.Â The ultimate truth is simply this; If you canâ€™t sleep with a girl â€“ donâ€™tâ€™ bother escalating.
Sheâ€™ll feel like a ho and youâ€™ll never see her again. Have a good time, get them back to your PLACE â€“ then escalate.Â They know thereâ€™s a possibility of sex if they agree to come to your place. No matter what reason you give â€“ they know.
Fuck it, Iâ€™m going to write a â€œgolden rules of gameâ€ article. Oh yeah.