I got me a massage today. Big ol’ Japanese guy grinding his elbow into my back.
I’ve got this HUGE muscle knot just in my right shoulder.
When he gets in there, it’s like HEAVEN.
But then this guy goes off and starts working on my legs – when I told him my shoulder is where the issue is (and we only had 30 mins to go!)
WTF! He’s wasting my freakin’ time!!
I mean, I suppose the body IS connected. Relaxing my feet, legs, hips or whatever else would in turn bring some relief to my shoulder too. But maybe 5, 10% of the effect of working on my shoulder directly.
Why waste my time and money having him work on my legs when I KNOW the problem is in my shoulder?
It got me thinking that most guys waste tons of time working on the wrong aspect of their skillset.
Some guys get stuck in the approach phase and just keep approaching 100’s of girls per week, when they’re not connecting with ANY of these women. Will you get better at connection just approaching 100’s of women and having 15 second interactions? Maybe a bit…. but wouldn’t it be a better use of your time FIXING that one issue so you could have a real conversation, and THEN go out and approach women?
I’ve met guys who can talk with women fine – but they’re too scared to talk to ANY women. So they just don’t. And they go around thinking “I should work on my body language” or “Hey, I’m gonna work on my text game”
WHAT TEXT GAME? WHAT THE F*** ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?
You need to break your AA – anything else is a WASTE OF TIME.
So stop dicking around. You know what you need to work on – get to it.
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