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Don’t Settle! -By Sasha

If you approach a woman who you’re not really attracted to, or during a conversation you realize you’re just not really interested in her, simply END THE CONVERSATION. It’s really that simple. You look’em in the eye, and you say “Hey, this was fun. It was nice to meet you” and you WALK AWAY.

Simple, isn’t it?

The problem with NOT walking away, is once in a while you’ll stick in there for whatever reason because you think you might get laid. The problem with that is, that occasionally, you WILL get laid. With some woman you’re not actually interested in. this leads to all sorts of problems because in many cases, guys will continue seeing this girl, merely because they are getting laid.

It’s bad for your ego. You’re dating a girl you don’t even like. You know this. You’ve settled. Even if she’s not that bad looking – it’s the same thing. You don’t like her. You’re with her because you couldn’t get laid. That’s why you’re there. This is always in the back of your mind, and you can’t escape it.

Do you think this isn’t going to affect you? You think everything is fine? It’s not fine. This will affect you on every level of your masculinity. Everything you do. Everyone you meet. Every time you express yourself. Your core being will scream “I WILL SETTLE FOR LESS!”

Ok, so you’re seeing this girl for a while. Turns out, you get along ok. It’s not great, but hey, it’s better than being alone, right?

Then, the comfort zone kicks in. Hey, why go out and meet new girls?

You’re already getting laid. You’re comfortable. Why hit the gym and work on losing those extra pounds? Fuck it. You’re comfortable.

Hey, why bother doing a kick ass job at work, and getting that promotion?

Who cares? You’re comfortable. Things are good enough as they are.

That’s who you are. You’re a guy that settles. What’s going to be next then, hmm? You already know, because at least half of you guys reading this settle. Everyone settles. (I settle – but not with women ;)

See, I’d actually rather be alone for a while, than settle and get some action with a girl I’m not really into. It makes me feel like shit. It kills my motivation to meet other girls. I’m lowering my own value.

Why would you want to do that to yourself? If you wouldn’t let someone else lower your value, dominate you, or treat you like shit (and if you’re reading this I assume you wouldn’t) why would you do it to yourself?

Look, I’m not saying you’re a failure if you go ahead and sleep with some ugly girl in a moment of weakness. We all get horny. We all slip.

But if it happens – MOVE ON. Keep on searching for the women that will make you feel something. The women that will make you feel alive.

The women that will make you laugh, cry, live. That’s what this is about.

Not marrying some 30 year old chubby girl who gives you blowjobs twice a week, because you’re too fat to fuck her properly.

Never settle in this area of your life. This area is the yardstick by which your lives will be measured. If you succeed in this, it will drive you to succeed in all things.

Settle in this area of your life and it very well may be your un-doing.




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  • James says:

    Wow! That’ was amazing Saha, well said I couldn’t agree more with this. I also have felt that this has been my main core of problems and the biggest part about it is that in some way, I was always aware of it but didn’t have th balls to take action until now I would say. From now on, I will not settle for less even if it takes 60 years to improve my life In general.

  • Paul from USA says:

    I have done this to many times.. It’s called online dating or fuck sites. Sasha you are very right and I’m changing my reality!!! I have settled but no more!!!

  • Ram says:

    Hi Sasha and all,

    great article, though a questions is raised:
    -I’m in a place in my life where I look only for relationship. I’ve fucked around for some time, now looking for something serious. I don’t see how you can go into relationship without some compromise! there are cool beautiful girls out there, I like some, don’t like others, but it doesn’t look as the “one, perfect as hell girl” exist. each will have pluses and minuses, and I will have to compromise on something.

    Would love to hear your response to that

    • Admin says:

      In all likelyhood you’re right, you’ll never get the “perfect” girl because nobody is perfect. There’s just someone who’s (close to) perfect for YOU.

      Just find someone (or some few) that make you happy. That’s the best anyone can do! Even better, just make yourself happy without needed someone else altogether!


  • Wowzers says:

    Thanks for posting this, it really reflected a lot of what i was thinking about myself. I seem to have settled quite a bit. I’ve noticed that sleeping with a woman i actually value is way more fulfilling for both of us if that value is there than if its not. Standards are something we should all have and adhere to. If you don’t stand for something you’ll fall for anything!

  • jimiSP says:

    As I was reading the article, I thought of a few things.

    There is a fine line between “settling into a relationship” and “settling for sex”. For instance, I’ve recently drawn that line with a girl. I basically told her, “You’re looking for a long-term, serious relationship right now, and I’m not. We can meet maybe 3-4 times per month. If we have sexual chemistry, we’ll let it go there. If not, then, we’re mature adults so we can be friends as need be.”

    Also, there’s a strong correlation between [the last time I had sex] and [how ‘low’ I will go to break a cold spell]. Don’t get me wrong, I’d NEVER stoop for a fattie or even a chubbers. I will however lower my standards in the ‘looks’ department. I’m sure it’s the same with most guys who don’t do ‘pickup’ for a living.

    However, I have do have doubts about this (lowering standards). For instance, a LOT of guys have difficult access to life-changing mentoring ($$$$). Even though there can usually be a permanent change to the person, most guys can’t see the value. Because they don’t seek mentoring, the only other option is to put in WORK. Approaches, numbers, flakes, dates, etc. It really is a lot of work and people just don’t assign time for it. It could be thought of as a full-time job. Except, there will be constant failures. (Even if you can view it in your mind as a learning experience, it’s still a failure.) And that’s on top of the 8 hours you just put in at your shitty job. (Note: I don’t have a shitty job, but most people do.) Most people see those inevitable failures and just say, “Fuck it. If an OK girl comes along and is game, why not?”

  • Aldo says:

    Hello Sasha you are the greatest!!!
    Yeah for me ,sometimes i do that, i get laid with some girls i really dont like but i do this because yeah im horny and also cuz i try to get better in bed hahaha so sleeping with girls help me to improve in bed thats my reason
    and yeah i dont get comfortable in there after that
    i just dont look for this girls if they call me to fuck again yeah i might go if dont thats fine, im always looking for the next girl!!!
    Thanks Sasha!

  • brian says:

    What if your goal is sexual experience? I’m not good at seducing new women yet, I have a 7 but I’m only doing it with her to get good in bed so that when I get a hot girl in the future I can keep her. Is that a legit reason?

    • Admin says:

      It’s legit for you, but if she read that she’d probably think you were an asshole

  • George says:

    You nailed it man! A friend of mine once told me something like “There is a train for every passenger.” and there are more than enough trains (men) around, so don’t worry about her and don’t pity her – her train will come, as well as your passenger :)

  • BigMatt says:

    Superb! This should be compulsory reading for everyone, male, female, young and old.

    I settled for a long time, but no more.

  • John says:

    Great article! And very useful! If you go for women you REALLY like you prevent both you and women from lots of trouble!

  • Matt says:

    Hey Sasha,
    What would you do if you already settled for a girl you like and care about, but she’s not the most beautiful women youve ever met? I’m thinking about meeting new people but not sure I wanna leave this girl either.

  • Alex says:

    Fucking Boss! Go for the finest sexiest chicks and like Sasha said dont settle!

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