Alright. I know. I havenâ€™t been blogging recently. But, a lot of shit has been going on. A lot of shit. Iâ€™ve been busy running bootcamps mainly, plus Iâ€™m organizing a major event, plus comedyâ€¦â€¦.arghhhhh.
I made out with a German girl on the street 2 days ago. Weâ€™d made eye contact, I knew she was into me. I said â€œHey are you Danish?â€ and she said â€œNo, Iâ€™m German, are you Danish?â€ and I was likeâ€¦. â€œListen, I know this is weird but â€“ will you be my girlfriend?â€ and sheâ€™s like â€œyesâ€ â€¦. And I stare at her. Then I said â€œYouâ€™re supposed to say know, and then I cryâ€ and she says â€œOk, letâ€™s start again!â€
So I come in again, and she still says yes, and then I grab her face and plant one on her mouth. No tongue but I feel I coulda done it. Right away Iâ€™m thinking â€œthis chick is awesome!â€ â€¦ Then we walk and talk. I say I wanna hook up with her in the next 2 days â€¦ I know I should do it that night but Iâ€™ve got shit to do that nightâ€¦ I invite her to a gig for the next day over FB (her phone was dead)
Anywho â€“ yea before I said bye, I said give me a kiss and she planted one of my mouth. Then I said â€œGive me a real kissâ€ And we made out proper â€“ right in front of her friend! German girls rock!!!!
(she didnâ€™t show up to the comedyâ€“ but hopefully I will see her in berlin!)
Anywho: Last few weeks Iâ€™ve been just doing fucking stupid fun stuff in field. It hasnâ€™t really been getting â€“ Iâ€™m not even tryin to get laid more – I donâ€™t care. Iâ€™ve been too busy entertaining myself. Itâ€™s totally Sasha/Marcus hybrid game. Itâ€™s like lame/stupid game – Hitting on girls badly, being blown out and crying/screaming â€¦ begging girls for their phone number. Getting down on one kneeâ€¦â€¦. Just fucking ridiculous shit. SO MUCH FUN.
I think having a blast is really far more important to me than picking up girls, hhehehe. But, in doing so â€“ I find Iâ€™ll still find the girls that really like my core personality. What Iâ€™m doing isnâ€™t for everyone. You donâ€™t have to be a douche and do stupid shit to talk to girls or meet girls. But, for me â€“ thatâ€™s who I am. I love it. I was teaching a guy this past weekend whoâ€™s quite a serious dude. I said to him â€œman, you donâ€™t have to do this shit. Do a bit of itâ€¦ then try these other forms of approach and just do what feels right for youâ€ â€¦ thatâ€™s really what this is all about. GET OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE â€“ then think â€œwhat feels right? What do I want to do ?
Thereâ€™s no RIGHT or WRONG way to do anything. Just whatâ€™s right for you the individual. (Ok ok, yes that are, just wrong ways of doing certain things â€“ but you know what Iâ€™m saying here)
Everyone has to GET OUT OF THEIR COMFORT ZONE â€“ itâ€™s the only way to grow.
This week, Iâ€™m trying something that completely is weird and hard for me. Marcus has been yelling at me to do this for yearsâ€¦ and I still donâ€™t do it. Iâ€™M TRYING NOW
My regular readers will think â€œoh here we go againâ€ but Iâ€™m REALLY trying to do it this time
Itâ€™s low energy game. LOW ENERGY. And with not jokes. Like lame game, but not the funny super on purpose lame game. Justâ€¦.. normal conversation.
Weâ€™ve been walking up to girls and doing this:
â€œhey, I know this is a bit random but â€¦.. will you go on a date with me?â€
Just that. Nothing funny. just straight up.
Hereâ€™s what happens: Most girls apologize for having a boyfriend, and are really flattered. Yesterday I had a funny one: These two girls were thereâ€¦. I stared a bit too long before I delivered the line (mainly cuz I was tryin to decide which one to ask out) â€¦ and I did the line and she was like â€œthis is weirdâ€ as they ran off. Hahaha. Awesome.
Anyways Marcus knows me very well and he says (and others than know me) â€¦ shit they all say the same thing. The normal me that just chills out and has a chat â€¦ heâ€™s cooler than the jokey character I put on. And Iâ€™m realizing they are right. Itâ€™s almost impossible to go into my normal self mode when I meet people â€“ but thatâ€™s what Iâ€™m working on.
Doing some approaches over the weekend I ran into (not one) but TWO girls Iâ€™d approached before. Fucking hilarious. Anyways one of them, I had a great chat with. And I didnâ€™t flirt with her at all. It was just an interesting conversation, and I could tell she was interested. She said sheâ€™s sent me a message on FB, but I never got it. I got her number this time. But the point is- sometimes just a normal chat is awesome and getâ€™s â€˜em interested. I was chatting with this brazilian girl last week and she was also interested â€“ as soon as I started flirting she fucked off and that was it.
Maybe it depends on the girl. I just relentlessly flirt with everyone but â€“ maybe itâ€™s best not to and see what happens? I just canâ€™t be arsed fucking about. I like to know if someoneâ€™s interested in 30 seconds so I donâ€™t waste my time. Ah well.
Maybe I need more calibration â€“ I think Iâ€™m too impatient. Maybe direct is good for impatient fuckers? Ah well whateverâ€¦ I donâ€™t know anymore.