1 Tip For A Great First Date

…How to Start it off with a Bang! First off, if you’re reading this, then congratulations are in order! You must have been out, pushing past your fears, approaching hotties and you’ve gotten at least one number! I remember in my “indirect days,” I used to get a number or two occasionally, but I’d very rarely call, text, or follow up at all. Why? Because I was so damn scared of screwing up, having an awkward date, or being rejected, then I just protected my little ego and pussied out! Super lame. Hopefully this one simple idea will inspire you to set that first date up, and give her a unique experience that she’ll never forget. So, what’s the big secret here? No, it’s not some NLP trick to hypnotise her into getting naked (sorry to disappoint), instead it’s just a simple mindset that helps make that crucial first few minutes of a date totally unique.

All you gotta do is: Act like you’re old lovers reunited!

I know what you’re thinking. “Hold on a sec, but I only just met this chick! How can I pretend like we already know each other, and what the hell is the point of doing that anyway?” Bear with me here. See, a little psychological trick you can apply in tons of situations is the fact that, when you act as if something is the case, the vast majority of people will follow your lead. For example, as Sasha has explained before, if you act like you’re a beggar or taking value, people will assume you are and will avoid you.

Conversely, if you act like you own the nightclub you’re in – go around introducing yourself and asking how people’s night is going, shake hands with the manager and get served at the bar instantly, then people will assume you are, or at least that you’re a person of influence. Don’t believe me? Just take a look at this awesome video:

Pretty cool huh? But you don’t need a fake entourage, camera crew or crowds of gullible Americans to pull this off! You just need that potent mix of fun, playfulness and cheekiness that we at Sasha Daygame love.

So, first off, as soon as you see her, you want to beam a radiant smile (remember, it’s like you were together, but haven’t seen each other for years – how would you feel, how would you express that?), open your arms wide as you walk towards her, and give her a big hug and a kiss on either cheek (slow down as you pass from cheek to cheek, giving yourself a nice amount of sexual eye contact).

Now, this may seem simple but it has a HUGE impact – and most guys don’t do it! Don’t let go after your hug and two kisses. Instead, pick her up and spin her around. This is a such a sweet tactic because, like our Direct Opener, it communicates multiple attractive traits all at the same time. It displays

  • confidence,
  • dominance,
  • leading,
  • playfulness,
  • fun,
  • spontaneity, and
  • it is quite sexual without being too forward.

Pretty good for just one 10-second move huh?
What you’ve done already in the space of the first minute of meeting her, is immediately break her out of the idea that this is going to be another run-of-the-mill, awkward date where you sit across from each other, not touching, having banal small talk about how many siblings you have. Instead, because you have subcommunicated so many attractive traits, she is now using her imagination to paint an amazing picture of the confident, romantic man you must be, and how awesome this experience is going to be.

One of the core concepts we teach on all our programmes is the importance of beginning your interaction with an emotional spike. Well, by following this simple technique, you’ve created an incredibly romantic moment, her heart is pounding, her adrenaline is flowing, and she’s already excited to go on an amazing adventure with you! – Ryan Black Lead UK Instructor

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  • Wicked says:

    Tried the kiss hug approach above on a first date from OKC. Her body language was so dramatically negative. I knew I had to stop half way or she was going to leap out of her body.

  • Dean says:

    Hey Sasha, thank you for all the great tips and advice on here. I was in the game indirect a few years ago, and though it got me results, I never felt right about it. My life veered off track for awhile and when I got it back on track I found your blog. I absorb everything from it from a reading standpoint, and finally put it into practice this week. I had my first date in 2 years tonight, and it went better than any date I’ve ever had because of your advice to be courageous, real and genuine, and to state INTENT, INTENT, INTENT. It felt so much better than going indirect. Thank you so much, you are god send.

  • Coldman says:

    haha nice, I do this all the time. Never got a bad reaction once.

  • Zak says:

    Sasha! This is a thank you. You and have showed me a lot dude and I really appreciate it. Today I had a date with a girl I met at a college. I am really into her and she’s really hot. I had a really fun date , we went to the top of a hill and looked at the city while listening to music then went tress passing and had to run from security, we ended up holding hands And getting touchy feely. I went around fucking with strangers and just generally being fun. I did your piggy back ride thing ! Haha I pussied out and didn’t kiss her goodbye but she set up our next date, this Thursday she wants to drink tequila . Good sign . Thank you Sasha for teaching me what I needed to learn

  • Rafael says:

    Pretty cool!

    Very good advice… all must try!

  • David Tee says:

    Damn, I read this in Sasha’s voice and then saw it was me old china plate Ryan who wrote it! Great tip by the way. The best and quickest way to “break the ice”, for sure.

  • Aaron says:

    I love the idea of literally sweeping the girl off her feet on the first date!!

    Golden, will have to try…


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