Did a daygame seminar yesterday with Marcus, and Yad. Boom!
Was a great event. I spoke for aroune 2.5 hours and Yad an Marcus did about an hour each.
What made it different was, I brought a couple of my girls out with me! (The ones from last night!) … I had them both work the door for me. I don’t think the guys were expecting that… some of them thought they’d arrived at the wrong event, lol.
I think something is fundamentally wrong where most “pua events” don’t actually have any girls in ‘em. What the fuck is going on there?
I also knew something was wrong when I felt uncomfortable (at past events) with the idea of women being in the room. Was it because PU in itself is derogatory and treats women like pieces of meat? Yea, probably.
Anyways: My recent growth (as a PUA and as a human/spiritual being) has led me to believe that my loving myself, and PU, and women, and everyone else actually go together. I love everyone. So, if I’m not ashamed of PU and I’m not ashamed of having sex with girls and enjoying that, why wouldn’t I want girls in the room? What the fuck am I hiding? Sure, I had some unhealthy attitudes towards women in the past. Shit, you can check my blog and I’m sure there’s some dodgy shit in there from must a few months ago. Hehe. But that all came from frustration and a lack of understanding. But not of women – of myself. (Ok, of women too – that last sentence just sounded cool) hehe
I wasn’t in touch with what I truly wanted, and I wasn’t in touch with what women wanted. I’m a lot closer to it now – and I love myself more than I did before. And I understand myself more, and women, and why people turn to PU.
Anyways, that being said – 3 of my girls were at the talk last night. Hbmixed, the hungarian, and the my friend “The red hot love coach” whom I’d met recently and become fast friends with. She’s actually a relationship coach and was doing a short talk at the end – which the guys enjoyed. She was talking about sex – and the guys were actually shy to ask her questions at the end! Once it kicked off, they couldn’t get enough questions in!
ZE GERMAN made minutes for the whole event. Can you believe it? I can. Haha.
I filmed it, I might have the best bits edited and could slap a piece of it up here maybe perhaps ;) ….. but only if you guys BEG!! BEG BITCHES !! muahaha…
Having women there definitely changed the dynamic. It was sweet, because every time I said “women think this” or “women want this” I’d look at ‘em in the corner and they’d give me a thumbs up or say “yep, that’s true!”
It’s one thing to have me – a manwhore – say some shit is true. And it’s another to have a couple of hot girls in the back say “yeap – what he says” …. Probably it’s 5x more believable. Also it’s nice to have a couple of hotties around to demo on, hehe.
So – the talk went great and Marcus and Yad were amazing as usual…. And the “Red hot love coach” did good too.
Anyways my talk was all about what it meant to really connect with people. There was a lot of shit, but that’s really what the message was. Have fun, enjoy yourself first, and really get to know people. If you don’t walk away from a girl without the ability to write a list of 10 awesome things she’s about – you don’t know her. Why would she call you? How many strangers do YOU call? (not including girls you’re trying to fuck?)
Yea, zero. Revelation!
I pretty much get what’s going on now. This journey is about – loving yourself – loving girls – having awesome girls in your life that you appreciate, who appreciate you.
Going direct/indirect – none of that shit really matters. It’s all about making friends and connecting with people. Making people feel the love.
That’s it really.
Johnny Soporno would be proud. Big thanks for him for helping me see the light. He was pretty much telling me all this shit last summer but It’s only really kicking in now. Some things you just got to figure out on your own time, I guess. Interesting though – you can hear “the truth” and know it’s “the truth” … but still not really get it. I think a true understanding of anything – ANYtHING – has to come from real life experience. To all you fuckheads sitting around at home who haven’t gone out and spoken to a woman in weeks (months?) you’re gonna have to get off your arses and do something about it. There is no other way.
THANKS JOHNNY SOPORNO! YOU ROCK!
Sasha.