Well, I’m up nice and early today. I’ve managed to switch my schedule from completely whack hours (going to bed at sunrise, and getting up at sunset) to a nice healthy schedule. Last few nights I’ve been going to bed at like 10pm really tired, then waking up at like 6 or 7am naturally… but last night I lasted till 3am – then woke up around 7am feeling absolutely great. I couldn’t coniceve of getting up THAT early, so I lounged around till 8.30, got up and make an awesome breakfast of organic eggs on organic honey oat bread with black pepper and worcecster sauce, and beans on more toast. LOVELY! My body has adapted to this new schedule… in fast it seems I’m only sleeping 5 hours some nights, and 8 hours others… but I feel just as great either way. My body is just taking what it needs – but what I’ve really noticed that’s interesting is that when I’m sleeping in the night time and being awake in the day – I’m feeling WAY better when I wake up, and I need WAY less sleep. I wake up, and I want to get up and go about my business – not crawl back into bed. Another thing I realized was that I’ve been sleeping on the couch (which is more comfy than my bed) this week… my friend dave who was sick was on my bed while he was in town. Cajun had a nap on my bed too – and he said he woke up sweaty as fuck – he said that my blanket didn’t let one “breathe”
That may also be responsible for how awesome I feel – I’ll find out when I go back to sleeping on my bed. Either way – this should highlight the importance of good sleeping habits. I mean, I never really gave it much thought … but I feel SO much better now. And I’m being more productive… and my sets are going WAY better. The girls I’ve got going on this week are fucking really hot. Like, holy shit. Basically I stopped seeing most of the ones I had going on – 2 were boring, and one (hbdancer) disappeared (I think she moved to Australia actually) … we only called each other for sex, so I wasn’t really keeping track of wtf was going on.
Anyways – so the last couple of weeks I’ve gotten thru with the 23 year old indie girl I’d picked up. She’s kinda insane, and… well, weird frankly. Amazing body, but – that’s about it really. So fuck that noise. I’m done that with!!
Right now, I got some serious shit going on. Last night, I went on a date with this 24 year old girl from Hong Kong. I’ll call her HBHK. HBHK is a 9 on the hot scale. Like – seriously hot. She’s gorgeous, and her body equally amazing. She’s got a rock hard stomach… just hot all over. She runs/swims at the gym 6 times a week. She’s got a really fun personality, and LOVEs me. Like, she’s laughing all the time and I’m just being my goofy ass self. Much the same as hbbulgarian (which I’ll get to in a minute)
So, I picked her up last week in russel square. She was just walking… me, Natural dave, and Cajun were just just leaving this restaurant and were going to walk back to my house…. And I spotted her. I go over and did a fairly lame approach…. Just told he she was cute and that I wanted to meet her. Anyways, we vibed for maybe 5 mins tops and then the lads walk over. I shoo them off, and get her number. All I can say was, she came off as SUPER friendly and fun… and it felt like she’s want to meetup but I make no assumptions. She was responsive to texts, but said she could only meeting up the following weekend on Sunday. I said that was cool… then I sent her a couple of bantery text in the week, just to keep her interested. Sunday around noon I texted saying that I’d call her around 6 when I was free…. Then we ended up meeting around 6.30. We had an awesome time. I mean, we only went for a coffee but…. We played the questions game for a long while. I found out this she’s got kind of a metal heart. Doesn’t do boyfriends, ever. Has never been in love. She even said that she never finds guys “attractive” initially – that guys grow on her. I did some jokes kiss moves on her but she dodged ‘em. Haha.
It’s interesting that you can really pick up on how much you can get away with on a date – and with this girl it was not much at all. But, as I’ve learned, there’s no point trying to escalate if all it’s going to accomplish is to weird her out so you never see her again. So I just played it cool. Still, I managed to get her back to my house and chill with her there for a couple of hours. She left mine at 11 so we’d spend 4.5 hours together. Even still, I could tell she’s into me and that I’d be seeing her again (well, 85% chance) :P
I think I’m finally starting to calibrate my escalation on dates. Like before it was push push push, and now I’ve just relaxed it to where I can judge how far I should push. This is good.
Anywho: Hbbulgarian is coming round tonight! Wahoo. What can I say? I’ve been taking it easy and she’s very into me so…… tonight will probably be the night. But, it doesn’t have to be. She’s still hurt about her ex BF – and I’ve told her there’s no pressure and that it’s all good no matter what – so I will continue in that vein. I suspect a cuddle, and a backrub is all it’s going to take to escalate the situation. I really enjoy her company, so it’s going to be a great night no matter what.